Reading Marylee's story is like being the fly on the wall - she brings you into the room and makes you part of her world. My work with adult adoptees and birth parents gives me some frame of reference to the difficulties and heartbreak of the Adoption Triad. This frank and passionate memoir relates a life lived with a hole in one's heart - in one's very being - that is truly at the root of the 'nature vs. nurture' paradox. I want to read the full story and continue to learn through this powerful shared experience.