I think the summary of the book was totally relatable! Nobody has the "perfect" family and while funerals are usually proper and quiet, that's not how people live. Funerals bring family together that you haven't seen in ages and it's amazing to see how everyone can help each other, even though it's been so long since you've last seen them. I think there are certain family members that you know are there for you even if the interactions are few and far between. We all have our own things we're struggling with or focusing on and need that unspeakable bond to hold us together.