A beautifully crafted memoir

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This was a gorgeous memoir, touching and sad with uplifting moments. Born and raised for his early years in the Synanon cult, Mikel Jollett is affected by the decisions made by his parents--especially his mother--for his entire life. He grapples with addiction, loss, and finding his place in the world in ways that are incredibly relatable even if you have not been through the same struggles yourself. This is a memoir about finding yourself and your family when the cards are stacked against you. The complexities and importance of the male relationships were particularly touching, especially since I tend to read memoirs written by women where this isn't as much of a theme.

When I was younger, I listened to the Airborne Toxic Event––of which Jollett is the founder and front man––but I did not find that knowledge vital to appreciating the story. This story reminded me that Jollett is a skillful, poetic writer. He has a way with words that makes you feel like you are experiencing the ups and downs right along with him. I found myself lingering over certain sentences and paragraphs that were much more poetic than I am accustomed to seeing in a memoir.

Overall, this was a gorgeous, gripping read, one that is going to stay with me for awhile.