Oh, my heart! I am trying to type this through tears, which is not easy, and neither is forming coherent thoughts. How do you give a "first impression" on the very end of a life? Perhaps, more fitting, is to say that it is clear that Mrs. Gray had such an enormous impact on those around her, and raised generations of incredibly caring and compassionate women. I think it is both horribly heartbreaking in terms of the circumstances of her death, but also so uplifting, to see how much love there is in this family.