This book is an eye opener, in so many ways. I cannot believe how incredible this book is. I'm itching to read the rest of the book. The message of the book is something that everyone should know about that people should be awakened to this message that although at first sight like he said seems easy it is not. The hardest part about loving is that most of the times its not easy, it something so intricate. Even just letting someone love you is hard, now giving someone that is "difficult" love is double the work yet so rewarding.