You’re Not Listening is an enlightening look into communicating effectively, its pros and cons, and where in the world society is geared in regards to this complex and critical skill.
With many examples and oodles of research, this was a really interesting read that had me reflecting frequently on my own listening skills.
Kate Murphy i
s a Houston based Journalist who describes in detail one of her most memorable conversations, and reflects on how listening has shaped her career, at the very start of the book.
It was nice to read and reflect on my own fond memories based on conversations, and throughout the book I was able to chuckle to myself when I read examples of times people were so eager to share their story, that they missed the opportunity to meet and listen to someone remarkable (like Neil Armstrong!). Haven’t we all had a time like that? It really drove home the point.
Murphy digs deep into the topic of active listening, learning when to stop listening, demonstrating listening through improvisation acting, and listening to your inner dialogue. I also appreciated how positive the whole piece was- even including how gossip is a strong social tool, and the benefits that it can provide.
Overall I found this to be a thought provoking and delightful read, and while I have so many self-reflective thoughts of my own experiences, I am more curious now, as to what others can share.
If you are feeling like you are getting stuck in a world where everyone is shouting over each other, (or tweeting in all caps with lots of !!!), this is a book to pick up. Lots of tips and considerations I am certain we will all benefit from.
With many examples and oodles of research, this was a really interesting read that had me reflecting frequently on my own listening skills.
Kate Murphy i
s a Houston based Journalist who describes in detail one of her most memorable conversations, and reflects on how listening has shaped her career, at the very start of the book.
It was nice to read and reflect on my own fond memories based on conversations, and throughout the book I was able to chuckle to myself when I read examples of times people were so eager to share their story, that they missed the opportunity to meet and listen to someone remarkable (like Neil Armstrong!). Haven’t we all had a time like that? It really drove home the point.
Murphy digs deep into the topic of active listening, learning when to stop listening, demonstrating listening through improvisation acting, and listening to your inner dialogue. I also appreciated how positive the whole piece was- even including how gossip is a strong social tool, and the benefits that it can provide.
Overall I found this to be a thought provoking and delightful read, and while I have so many self-reflective thoughts of my own experiences, I am more curious now, as to what others can share.
If you are feeling like you are getting stuck in a world where everyone is shouting over each other, (or tweeting in all caps with lots of !!!), this is a book to pick up. Lots of tips and considerations I am certain we will all benefit from.